There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to labor and childbirth, and this includes pain relief and management. I chose to have an epidural during my 3 pregnancies, while some choose to have a natural birth.
What’s a father-to-be supposed to be doing while he waits for his child to arrive? Well, gentlemen, put on those coveralls and get out that toolbox because it’s time to get your hands dirty with a little activity commonly called mesting.
Get clear on what you wish to impart, intention should not be forcing traditional rituals on kids without explaining any questions but to make kids more aware of their culture and long-established traditions and take pride in their rich heritage.