How do you handle unneccessary comments about your parenting methods from meddling family menbers?

My mom makes fun of my 3-year-old daughter because she doesn’t like dresses and dolls. She thinks she’s not girly enough and that I’m spoiling her by allowing her to choose what toys he wants to play with.

It was awkward coming from her, considering we had a gender-neutral parenting debate when I was pregnant. We eventually agreed that raising kids regardless of gender stereotypes right from birth is the way to go now. But it’s evident that she still doesn’t respect my choices in general. To see it spill over to how I raise my child hurts.

I’m so pissed right now, and I don’t know how to handle this.